And speaking of mortality.. I’ve seriously been bothered by what I’ve read in a facebook post just recently..
Friends, yes, I consider you (my readers) my friends now. So allow me to be brutally honest with you. I know I’m not in the position to judge him, not knowing what he has been through. But I really feel that this is too early & too inappropriate..
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| Dated March 07.. just 2 months after his wife passed away. I’m sorry but 2 months?? And you’re already considering a NEW family??? This. After you profess your undying love for your wife, bombarding your wall (and your friends walls by tagging them endlessly every single day) daily with updates from the time she was in the hospital until now?? Really? Sorry, I don’t know about you guys but I feel there’s something seriously wrong with this post. Could you have at least kept in private? Or waited at least 1 year after??? |
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| And another post just the other day.. I know you’re sad -and hurting, a lot. And your wife probably gave you her blessing to re-marry. But 64 days, really? You’re asking God for this??? This soon? Baka naman pwede ka pa maghintay! |
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Comment: If I die, will you marry again? Husband: (aghast) No way. Not ever again! Happy Monday morning!
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Reply: Hi. Please ask your husband the reason why He he. Reminds me of this PM that a FB friend sent to me after reading this post. She said, “btw i asked my husband once pag kinuha nako ni Lord mag aasawa kapaba? Not that i mind.. I said… Buti nga mag asawa ka ulit…hindi na! he said shaking his head quite vigorously. O talaga? Baket? E ksi ayoko na ng sakit ng ulo!ngek! Nakupo…kaya pala pumuti na ang lahat ng buhok nya sa kunsumisyon sakin..” Ha, ha, ha.
So last night, while Kap & I were HHWD (Holding Hands While Driving) home from the wake, I remembered this & casually asked him if he would marry again if I were to pass. Ang mokong, hindi sumagot!!! </3 Oh-em-gee!! Really?? After 27 years together you would really consider looking for another love when I go? And here I thought I was your one true love!!! :'((
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| Me & Kap.. one true love!!! |
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Tramp & Kap!!!  (Grrrrrrr!!!) |
I told him, in no uncertain terms.. HINDI PWEDE!!! @_@ Okay, call me selfish but I really feel in my heart that there can only be one great love in a lifetime. For one to even FIND it in a lifetime is already a blessing. Whatcha doin looking around for another one, fool???
So I told him, again, in no uncertain terms. If he remarries, he will have 2 options:
1.) I will come back. At mumultuhin ko sila ng bagong jowa nya ng bonggang bongga!!!
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| Revenge of Ms. Piggy!!! |
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2.) I will rise. Kakainin ko sila ng bagong jowa nya ng bonggang bongga!!!
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| Wrath of Ms. Piggy!!! |
Kapitan K, take your pick! Hmp! Kung ako ikaw, mag-tennis ka na lang! That’s the safest route to take!
PS- All the pictures here DO NOT belong to me.
17 Comments
Thank you for my lunchtime "haha" moment, Jane!I think I will let my Hunny find another love when I pass. Good luck finding someone who comes even close. =P LOL
March 12, 2013 at 4:05 amMaybe hoax yung fb na yan?I vote for zombie para you can eat the jowa alive!
March 12, 2013 at 4:22 amHi Che!
No, the fb is real. I've been following their story ever since his wife was brought to the ICU for late stage lupus. And i really thought he was the perfect husband. hmp, na-disillusion ako ng bonggang bongga!! 
And yup, I think zombie is better. Mabubusog pa ako hehe. Burp! ;))
March 12, 2013 at 5:14 amHay naku Kassie, dakila ka!!! :)) Hinding hindi talaga pupwede!!! ;P
March 12, 2013 at 5:15 amNa curious ako sa post hahah
The nerve kainis!!! Sinetch Itey?! My stalking skills are weakening lol. As for your Kap K moment.. malaking malaking HAHAHA..i imagine myself saying the same thing to Al with matching threatening eyes lol.
March 12, 2013 at 5:38 amYou're funny, Ms. Jane. This post made me smile. I'd go for the "zombie," too. hahaha … But kidding aside, most men upon becoming a widower re-marries or find a gf or a female companion. I think its not because they don't love their wife who just passed away but simply because they don't want/ don't know how to take care of themselves and the children. In other words, naghahanap ng yaya/maid/gf. While sa case naman ng wife (if the husband dies) … the widow will focus on taking care of the children, house, etc. Almost the same lang (except namatay ang asawa). In other words, nabawasan lang ng isang tao.. hehe
March 12, 2013 at 6:32 amhay naku korek ka diyan, Edel. But still.. NO DEAL!!! Kumuha nalang sya ng sangkatutak na yaya at cook no!! Hindi talaga pupwedeng mag-jowa uli!!! @_@ Ayaw ni ms. Piggy magagalit sya ng major major!!!
March 12, 2013 at 9:42 amhmmmnnnn… dapat pala Ella with matching glare & eye roll nung sinabi ko sa kanyang NO WAY hahaha!!! ;))
March 12, 2013 at 9:46 amOh my gosh, so cute! Haha! One of my favorite posts from this blog ever, Jane!
March 12, 2013 at 11:20 ami also had a similar conversation with my husband. he said the same thing, he'll probably re-marry if i die first; because of his (physical, most probably) needs daw. grrr…he asked me the same thing, will i re-marry if he dies. and i said, "hindi na. parang hindi naman ako nagtanda ("as if i didn't learn my leasson!").yikes! not an ideal conversation between husband and wife. 8(
March 13, 2013 at 4:18 amApir! I'll do the same two options, too, kapag hindi ko nagustuhan ang sagot ni hubby sa remarriage question na yan. Haha.
March 13, 2013 at 6:03 amHay. Mag-ayos sya sa sagot nya!!! Hindi nadadaan sa bags yan kamo, Edel. hahaha!!!
March 13, 2013 at 12:53 pmhahaha I'm O.A. noh? ;P Thank you, noelle! :-*
March 13, 2013 at 12:55 pmHmp! MEN!!! @_@ Can't live with them, can't live without them!!
March 13, 2013 at 12:56 pmHahaha!You made my day with this post Ms Jane! I love it! Nakakatanggal ng stress!So funny and witty!
March 14, 2013 at 6:35 amHay naku Kat. Paki-tanong nga si papa josh, now na! ;)) at i-chika mo sa akin ang sagot nya. Let's compare notes nga!!! :))
March 14, 2013 at 12:08 pmOmg my dear kitchen goddess!! I'm sooo sorry pls forgive me. I keep calling you Edel eh ayan si edel sa ilalim nag-comment din hahaha. Sorry talaga i'm so old na talaga I get confused with all the aliases & names. Please, what should i call you, may I know your name?
Sorry to you & my dear Edel for the confusions :))
March 14, 2013 at 12:12 pm