For the longest time, my Lovey has been bugging me for a second ear piercing. Her actually, more than her ate. Of course, having been a teenager once myself, I fully understood her fascination. I also begged my mom before for a second ear piercing during high school but she wouldn’t allow, so I got hold of her ear gun similar to the one below when she was away one day & punched a hole on my lobe. Admittedly somewhat askew, but problem solved nevertheless. I hid my ears with my hair & she never knew the difference. Yeah, I’m such a bada$$ that way, rebel Jane! 😛 Buti nalang my girls are not as experimental & as adventurous as me. Maloloka ako kung nagkataon! 😛
I went through everything as a teenager. Smoking, drinking, sneaking out. Name it, except for pot & dangerous drugs, I tried it. Even driving, my mom was just one day surprised to find out I already knew how to drive & had a license. Nilakad ko talaga ang avenida at recto to get to the A-1 driving school. Looking back now, I shudder with my hubris. I’m just thankful my guardian angel kept me safe from harm & danger and nothing bad happened to me!
Which is why as a mom now, I try to keep an open mind & not be too strict with my kids. I KNOW what it’s like living with a strict & conventional parent. I want them to know that I’m their best bud & they can tell and ask me anything without shame or judgement. I’d rather they do their experimenting with me than with other people. Or worse, sneak off & do things which may be harmful to them & detrimental to their health. But thank goodness they don’t seem to want to experiment that extensively. Mabuti naman! Maybe reverse psychology DOES work! ;P
Because I want to be as supportive as I can –within means of course, I took them to their Pedia the other day to make sure everything was sterile & safe. I don’t want some hippie piercing their ear with a dirty needle & potato! Anyway, it’s just ear piercing, I mean what harm can an extra hole do, right? Worst case? You’d need to get them extra earrings, lels. I mean it’s just a teeny tiny hole. Mine closed up as soon as I stopped wearing an extra earring. Not a big deal. Really. I’ll even support small tattoos & belly piercing –huwag lang sa eyebrows , tongue & nipple please! @_@ Giyera patani na yan!
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Paano na kung si guwapong not-so-baby son ang nagrequest ng ear piercing?!? (BTW LMAO with your “nilakad ko ang Avenida at Recto…”)
Happy weekend, dearest J.
October 12, 2013 at 8:23 amutang na loob hindi sya pwede mag-piercing, kaloka!!! :)) happy weekend too my dearest meding!! :-*
October 12, 2013 at 10:28 amthe soup looks good in picture, esp the congee.
love the new look.
October 12, 2013 at 8:53 amyeah it’s easier to maintain. I think i’m really mean to have boyish haircut haha. Thanks Maria! :-*
October 12, 2013 at 10:29 amyour girls are so brave!!! would you believe wala akong ear piercing? haha something that has to do with Chinese luck and feng shui but ayun no earrings even during my wedding day. bumawi nalang ako sa necklace and super beaded gown haha
October 12, 2013 at 11:03 amuuuuyyy franny if feng shui says no piercing, then no piercing talaga haha. Better safe than sorry. Anyway may clip-on earrings na naman. 🙂 And piercing are over-rated! ;))
October 12, 2013 at 11:04 amI had my additional piercings as well when I was about Jana’s age! I went alone to greenhills to get it done baka kasi ayaw ng parents :p Buti pa your daughters kasama si mommy!!! 🙂
October 12, 2013 at 12:46 pmMahirap na Che baka pag-uwi kasi 5 na ang piercing hehe kaya sinamahan ko na! 😛
October 12, 2013 at 3:38 pmWow Mommy Jane, mabuhay ang mga supportive moms. My own mom accompanied me to get two (both ears, so four pala yun) extra piercings as a high school sophomore. Na-Registrar’s office pa ako kasi bawal sa school ang multi-pierced ears. Hwahahahaha!
40% off sa dimsum. I’m so there!
October 12, 2013 at 7:05 pmOA naman sila basta okay sa payrents dapat ok narin sa school haha #rebel ;))
October 13, 2013 at 1:09 amHey Jamey Ako rin I did all that in school except drugs. And grew up with strict old school conventional parents too so am more chummy with Monica with my communication lines always open. You & I are so alike in many ways kaya we get each other! Difference lang natin I DON’T DRIVE!
October 12, 2013 at 8:30 pmoh yes we are def soul sistahs techoy!!
October 13, 2013 at 1:10 amYou’re one cool mom, Ms. Jane! Kudos! 🙂
October 13, 2013 at 4:57 pmI try. 😉 thank you michelle! :-*
October 13, 2013 at 5:13 pmAng babait ng mga anak mo. I hope #babyMartinez will grow up to be like them.
PS
Wag lang sobra sa shopping baka uminit ulo ng asawa kong kuripot lol
xoxo
October 19, 2013 at 12:47 amMrsMartinez
Hahaha I’m sure Brielle will be one perfect baby girl! Busog sa pagmamahal ni mommy eh. Uuuuyyy hindi nga kurips si papa Wilson in fairness panay ang shopping mo jan in canada ang daming haul ha! 😉
October 19, 2013 at 3:30 am