A long, long time ago, back when I used to play badminton at our courts in Las Piñas, there’s this couple whom I’ve take quite a great liking to. Actually pati si Kap, which is rare. Kasi usually, sya ang may kaibigan, tapos damay lang ako. Or ako yung may kaibigan (uuuuy meron daw), tapos saling kit naman sya. But with spouses Julie & Jong, we had a friend each –at pareho pa naming love. Terno kami, ang saya saya! ;))
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Around 8 years or so ago, Jong migrated to the U.S. to try out a different luck in life. Then his wife Julie & their kids followed suit after a couple of years. We lost contact after, alam nyo naman ang buhay America. Time is gold & kayod sila to the max, expecially since the family was starting all over again in a new land.
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After they left, I stopped playing badminton. Nawalan ako ng gana kasi ba naman after every game, we would quickly shower, then eat out & talk until the wee hours of the morning. Three times a week yan walang paltos, so masyado talaga akong na-attach sa kanila. I was very sad when they left, and going to the badminton courts brought feeling of longings, kaya tumigil na rin ako ng punta.
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When I learned that we were U.S. bound last 2018, I searched & searched for this elusive couple online but I couldn’t find them, huhu.
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Then I said to myself, ah, yung mga anak sigurado active sa social media (altho they were still young ‘uns when the family migrated. Baka hindi na ako kilala kung i-friend ko sila sa FB).
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I took my chance & added the 2 girls. The eldest accepted my friend request immediately & I happily messaged her away. Nagtaka siguro sya sino itong mashonda na gusto sya i-add sa Fb, hahaha! ;))
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Finally, I made contact! I was so very excited to see our dear friends again. Thankfully, Linda –este Ate, gave us a whole day to spend with Julie. She adjusted our itinerary & cleared one day for the meet up.
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At first, I thought Julie was only able to give me 3 hours of her day (mahal ang oras nya since she’s paid by the hour). It was such a pleasant surprise when she sprang the news during lunch that she moved around her schedule so we can spend the whole day together. I was beyond happy!! <3
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For the whole duration of our day, I never left her side. Iniwan ko talaga sila Kap at kay Julie ako nakisakay while she took us grocery shopping at Costco for our L.A. pad, The Grove, and finally, Santa Monica Pier..
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Costco
The Grove
Santa Monica Pier/Pacific Park
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Jong had a tight ship to commandeer & was only able to get away for dinner, but it was time much appreciated by Kap & I. Sobrang touched kami that Julie & Jong made time for us and treated us not once, BUT TWICE pa. Si Kap palakpak ang tenga kasi akala nya talaga, sya ang taya, lol! 😛 Nakalusot!
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Dearest Julie & Jong, we will NEVER forget & forsake our friendship. Hindi man kami madami makipag-kaibigan, those we have, we really hold dear to our hearts. We will always have such fond memories of the two of you. Fate forced us apart, but fate also brought us back together.
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10 years naman ang visa namin hehe. Malay nyo, taon-taon mabisita namin kayo? Baka magsawa nga kayo sa mga pagmumukha namin.
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Sabi nga ni Aristotle, there are 3 kinds of friends you meet in life. I’m happy to claim that ours has, and always will be, the 3rd kind. <3
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- Friendships of utility are those where people are on friendly terms mainly due to the benefits each brings to the table. Business partners, colleagues, and schoolmates are examples.
- Friendships of pleasure are those where people find each other because of the enjoyment it brings. People hanging out due to fitting hobbies, common interest, and fishing buddies are examples.
- Friendships of the good, are most important as among the three types of friendship. These are friendships based upon respect, appreciation for each other’s qualities, and a strong will to aid and assist the other person because one recognizes their greatness.
I won’t cry because I know this is not another goodbye. It’s “see you soon”. Love you both, so proud of the life you have made for yourselves here in LA., and rootin’ for ya! :-*
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