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To my Babyson on his 16th Birthday!

My dearest Babyson,

Today, you are 16. I guess too old to be called my babysonΒ na, huh? πŸ™‚ And someone else calls you her “baby” now so I probably should start thinking of another pet name for you. πŸ˜› But in my heart, you will always be my babyson. No matter how tall you get, or how old you become.

It seems just like yesterday when mommy was your whole world. It was always “mommy this” or “mommy that”. I miss those days.

I’m just here babyson. Waiting with open arms. Always. <3

And even though it’s not very macho, allow me to envelope you in my arms like before. Even for just a couple of seconds every day. I miss cuddling my baby boy. <3

Fast forward to now. You’re stronger & taller na than mommy! How I sometimes wish I can just stop the clock from turning.

I know that at 16, I should probably let you go gently. Goodness knows your dad always tells me to do so. But it’s really hard coz I always worry about you. It’s my job as your mom, you know, to keep you warm & safe. I can’t imagine a life without you, which is why I am the way I am. Give me more time please? I’ve beenΒ too traumatized with great losses around usΒ that I need to cough up some courage to slowly let you be your own man. Please be patient with me, I promise you, that time will come. Just let me hang on to my babyson a little while longer. Allow me to take care of you a little bit more.

This year, I’m glad to see that your wings have fully expanded & that you are ready to take that flight. I’m happy to see that you have plenty of new friends to keep you occupied. I’m delighted that you found that special someone who makes your heart beat faster & makes you inspired to go to school -for only a special, wonderful girl deserves my baby boy. But in a way, I’m also sad because you have less time for mom. I guess I’m selfish to want to have you for myself. You are my only boy, after all. πŸ˜‰

I know I don’t need to tell you to always stick to ONLY one girl at a a time. πŸ˜‰ You are sensitive enough for that, and I’m glad. Treat girls just as you would treat your sisters & your mom. If possible, make sure that THAT one girl will be your girl for the rest of your lifetime. We are not objects to be played with. Always be serious & have good intention when you get into a relationship -never get into a relationship just for the sake of it, no matter the amount of peer pressure. Love is not a game. Respect her as you would respect us, the ladies in your life. And if & when the time comes that the love is gone, never string her along. Be honest, but also be gentle. For nothing is worse than a broken heart. Speaking of broken hearts, I wish you will never have to go through one. But if you do, know that it’s not the end of the world, and that there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Bid your time.

I want to thank you for being an ideal son. You have never given me heartaches & headaches (well except for that one time when you packed your things & left home because you were angry at me! Please babyson don’t ever do that again. Mommy is human & also makes mistakes). You always study diligently, and you have never done anything that will make me sad, or angry, or disappointed. Thank you for that. And thank you for knowing not to associate yourself with the wrong crowd, doing the wrong things.

Keep up the good work son. I’m so proud of you! πŸ™‚

I also want to say that I’m so proud of you, and at the kind of man that you are becoming. I hope that you will always take things in stride & always consider your future no matter what. Now that you are 16, a lot of things will look tempting. I hope that Dad & I raised you well & right to know what is good for you. Finish your studies babyson, prioritize it above all because it will give you a bright future, even after Dad & I are long gone. Sometimes affairs of the heart get in the way of the path that is laid out for us. Please don’t let it be the case. Be an inspiration to one another & climb up the ladder of success together.

And please, always always be there for your sisters. Always look out for their best interest -but you don’t need to be an action star. DO NOT BEAT ANYONE TO A PULP! Baka makulong ka pa! Sometimes listening is more than enough. Just be there for them. Time will come when you will all have relationships of your own. Don’t let it be a hindrance, and never allow external associations ruin your sibling bond that we your parents have carefully crafted. At the end of the day, blood is STILL thicker than water. Do not let anger, hearsays, or misunderstandings get in the way of sibling love. Don’t be like me, I will always regret my failed relationship with my only sibling. Please never make the same mistake.

Thank you for loving one another. Please never let anyone destroy this bond.

Remember. babyson, that the heart is BIG. We can all occupy that big space in your heart -together. It doesn’t need to be just for 1 person. Make some room for us too. πŸ˜‰

Speaking of action stars. I know it’s in your nature as a guy to be macho. But choose your battles wisely. Please. If there comes a time when you have to run for your life, RUN. Don’t hesitate, and don’t look back. It’s not cowardly to want to live. It’s called self-preservation. All tangible things can be replaced, don’t be a hero. If a bad person asks for it, give in without a fight. Material possessions don’t count. Your life does. Always.

The photo below belongs to mechoart.com

Wag kang mag-ala Bruce Lee. Please lang! You may look alike, but you don’t have his awesome fighting skills, OR his abs! πŸ˜›

Lastly, I know you’re on a different plateau of happiness right now, but do remember your mom, dad, & siblings once in a while. We miss you too you know. Leave some time for your family as well, join us in our escapades. Don’t shut us out. Mommy misses hanging with you -even for just a quick ice cream run.

I love you so very much my babyson. No words can express how much. <3 Happy happy 16th birthday. I wish you all of God’s great & wonderful blessings! :-*

And even though you always go for that annoying look, you are still the handsomest babyson in the whole wide world, and you will always, ALWAYS be.. MOMMAH’s BOY!! <3

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Love always, your Mommy

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30 Comments

  • Reply Michelle Melo (@michymichymoo)

    Soooo touching, Mama Bear. <3

    Happy birthday Jonah! πŸ™‚

    November 28, 2013 at 8:30 am
  • Reply Erika

    aww, ang aga aga naman naiyak ako! swerte nila for having a mom like you! saludo ako sayo mother! and swerte ka din to have kids like them.. I am GO’s number 1 fan!!

    November 28, 2013 at 8:47 am
    • Reply Sugar and Spice

      thank you erika i know how much you love all of us & we really really appreciate you!! <3

      November 28, 2013 at 1:11 pm
  • Reply Ynna Mortola

    Beautifully written! Naiyak ako, swear. Happy birthday to your son πŸ™‚

    November 28, 2013 at 10:53 am
    • Reply Sugar and Spice

      thank you ynna! Ako din naiyak hahaha! πŸ˜› drama queen talaga ang nanay hay! ;))

      November 28, 2013 at 1:10 pm
  • Reply Frances Lorraine

    awwwww i love the photo of the three of them hugging… was jana crying? πŸ™

    November 28, 2013 at 1:03 pm
    • Reply Sugar and Spice

      yes franny she was crying haha. That was on her birthday & she was touched with the love letters her siblings gave her kaya naiyak. <3 Happy tears naman lels. ;))

      November 28, 2013 at 1:09 pm
  • Reply Millicent Joy (Mills)

    hi Mommy Jane! I’m a fairly new reader of your blog, and I find your writing so refreshing, real and cool! Ang mga post nyo po ang hinahanap ko when I open my email first thing in the morning – your chikas make me smile! πŸ™‚

    This is really a touching happy birthday letter/greeting/emote to your baby son – happy birthday to him! and i do hope to bump into you someday – magpapapicture po ako, haha! god bless you and your birthday boy! πŸ™‚

    November 28, 2013 at 1:50 pm
    • Reply Sugar and Spice

      wow thank you mills for reaching out to me, I reallyappreciate it. And I appreciate you! <3 Yes, I hope we bump into each other one of these days, I'm fairly lagalag so it's a possibility haha! :-*

      November 28, 2013 at 3:11 pm
  • Reply Mommy Marie

    Happy birthday Jonah! Hope you know how lucky you are for having a most wonderful mother by your side. Jane, you’ve been the best to your children but sadly, we mothers are most prone to making mistakes because of too much love and concern for our kids. Congratulations to you and Kap for having well-raised and loving kids! There are no perfect kids in the world as there are no perfect parents too. Btw, ang ganda ng girl between Ate and Jonah, the one in green. Take care Jane! God bless you always.

    November 28, 2013 at 3:33 pm
    • Reply Sugar and Spice

      Thank you so much marie!! <3 I've missed you I hope everything is good over at your end! :-* Please give missie a kiss from me!

      November 28, 2013 at 3:35 pm
      • Reply Mommy Marie

        Thanks Jane! Even if I do not get to comment very often, believe me, I always, always, always check your blog and your very encouraging texts and emails to me. God bless you!

        November 29, 2013 at 11:18 am
  • Reply ewok1993

    happy happy birthday! are all your kids born in the same month? he looks older than 16 esp pag naka suit. binatang binata na ang dating.

    November 28, 2013 at 3:48 pm
    • Reply Sugar and Spice

      hahaha one is october & 2 are november. 2 weeks apart lang silang 3. Magaling si Kap mag-schedule! ;))

      November 28, 2013 at 4:48 pm
  • Reply Kasseopeia

    Happy birthday, Jonah. I know at 16 you feel so grown up but believe you me… the years have a lot in store for you. Enjoy having Mommy while you still can πŸ˜‰

    November 28, 2013 at 5:27 pm
    • Reply Sugar and Spice

      oo nga bago ako naka-diapers & wheelchair haha! πŸ™‚ Thanks kassie!

      November 28, 2013 at 6:24 pm
  • Reply Carol

    So touching! Naiyak ako haha grabe!!!

    November 28, 2013 at 8:10 pm
    • Reply Sugar and Spice

      nagse-senti si mommy hahaha mashonda na kasi! πŸ˜›

      November 28, 2013 at 8:48 pm
  • Reply Stephani Macalino (@StephaniMacalin)

    Hppy Birthday to Jonah! πŸ™‚

    November 28, 2013 at 9:18 pm
    • Reply Sugar and Spice

      Thank you!! I’l make sure to relay your greeting tomorrow! He’s asleep na haha! :-*

      November 28, 2013 at 11:46 pm
  • Reply Jeng del Rosario

    Happy birthday Jonah!!!!… The post is really touching..Omg mama bear!!!. from a guy like me. .. believe me that he will really think twice.. and always almost follow you and his heart!! He is so lucky to have you as a mom! πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€

    November 29, 2013 at 3:55 am
    • Reply Sugar and Spice

      thank you baby bear!! <3 Ang problema hindi siya nagbabasa ng blog ko hahaha! πŸ˜›

      November 29, 2013 at 4:08 am
  • Reply jam

    Hi Jane! Happy birthday sa kids mo. Some of the funniest and most reliable persons I know are born in November – but matampuhin. I should know, Nov din ang birth month ko haha. Sorry I am not a mushy person so ang tumatak talaga sakin sa article na ito is how you feel that Jonah is not spending enough time with his family anymore. Naisip ko lang, kung namimiss mo si Jonah, siguro si Katie miss na din kasama ng family niya. πŸ™‚ hehe. Pero lilipas din yan. But ahhh, young love! ~nakakainggit sila minsan. hehe

    -jam

    November 29, 2013 at 9:38 am
    • Reply Sugar and Spice

      Korak ka jan. Matampuhin AT moody! πŸ˜› Belated happy birthday, Jam! <3 Hay.. young love, hahamakin ang lahat masunod ka lamang! :)) Thank you for your words of comfort! :-* Sali ka sa 12 Days of christmas giveaway ko ha. Salihan mo lahat pls para kunwari naman madami akong readers hahaha!!!

      November 29, 2013 at 11:18 am
  • Reply Emily G

    Bat naman ako na tteary eyed sa blog post na ito? Belated happy birthday to your babyson, Ms. Jane

    November 29, 2013 at 2:24 pm
    • Reply Sugar and Spice

      aha! pwede na akong writer for drama serye! ;))

      November 29, 2013 at 2:32 pm
  • Reply Dandasha_8

    Awwwwwwww teary eyed ako! I can relate so so so so much.

    Kung sina Ate V at Ate Guy ay versatile actresses, ikaw ay versatile blogger! You can make your readers LOL and sometimes you can make us cry *sniff* *sniff* *sniff* too!

    December 2, 2013 at 10:54 am
    • Reply Sugar and Spice

      hahaha you just love me way too mych meding!! <3 and I love you back! Excited for your HK kwento! Let's get together with the Kaps soon. I miss you!! :-*

      December 2, 2013 at 11:32 am

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