Kap warned us right after our summer vacay: No travelling until 2018 -his 50th birthday. And this time I was actually in sync with him, believe it or not. ๐ Our last month-long trip really drained us financially. Grabeng gastusan talaga yun. Nasabayan pa ng renovations, so we are really on the alanganin side and have to save-save-save before we can live it up again.
He, however, was considering a local trip. Pag sya ang bida, pwede hehe. Magaling, magaling, magaling! Kap was thinking of a 2-week Bicol getaway for the kids’ Christmas break, a road trip, for the entire family. And by entire, I mean with the lolas & yayas in tow. Oh Honey, you really have selective amnesia. Have you forgotten our Davao Trip? Sooobrang dusa ang dinanas natin, nalimutan mo na?
It’s so hard & stressful travelling with a big-sized group coz 1- it’s hard to get big tables in small, local restos. 2- long trips mean multiple weewee breaks. More so for the lolas who need to drain their bladder like every 15 minutes ok. 3- familiarity breeds contempt. Nuff said. 4- too close for comfort, with 14 days to spend in close proximity all day err’day -no escape, I kenat. The kids KENAT!
Seeing their Dad so gung-ho on travelling but limited to local spots coz of his self-imposed rule. The kids computed how much it would cost for a Bicol getaway for the entire fambam, all 10 of us. It came up pretty big, considering. Then they looked for international trips online & found a cheap one bound for Taiwan via Cebu Pacific. Mas mura pa lalabas even after travel tax & accommodations. So they chipped their resources together & came up with the exact amount for a Christmas gift for the family.. a roundtrip airfare to Taiwan at only 5k per person, all in, woohoo! \m/
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They connived with me and of course evil person that I am, I saw a road to freedom hehe. Yeeees, I said. Sagot ko na ang accommodation & pocket money. But that will be the Christmas gift. Meaning no more presents under the Christmas tree & no more major purchases para hindi maimbyerna ng todo-todo si Kap my Kap! ;P
Everybody agreed. We sealed the deal & booked for December 25-30. The problem now is how to tell Daddy. Lagot! @_@
The kids waited for the “right time”,ย meaning their dad had just eaten, is in a relatively good mood, and paantok na para not so alert HAHAHAHAHA! They found their chance, or so they thought!
Poor kids, they never saw it coming. One sentence in, nakatikim na agad sila ng sabon, with matching kula at banlaw.. may repeat pa! I took a video of their sermon session but they just look too pitiful to share with you hehe. All 3 of them were crying, yup even my manly man. Baka kamuhian nyoย ng todo-todo si OTL ko, kaya wag nalang hehe.
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You don’t know Kap. He is pleasant & funny. But when he’s serious, he really means business. Sagad sa buto magsalita, talagang aaray ka. Ayan oh, inupo nya yung 3 bata. All 3 of them were holding hands and crying silently as their dad gave them a 1-hour sermon, I kid you not. Pati ako pinagagalitan. Sabi ko “excuse me, hindi ako kasali jan. Wag mo ako idamay!” Sorry kids, but every man for himself now, lolz.
The kids went to sleep with heavy hearts because Kap said para magsilbing leksyon,ย hindi kami tutuloy. Nanghinayang ang mga bagets sa ibinayad nila, kawawa. I talked to Kap. “Honey, ilang bata ba ang kilala mo na magsasakripisyo ng allowance nila para ibili ng ticket pa-bakasyon ang buong pamilya? Pwede naman nila ibili ng mga personal na bagay-bagay nila yan pero pinili nilang gamitin sa regalo natin pang-Pasko.” Isip isip sya.
Nahimasmasan siguro, kinabukasan he apologized to the kids & said we will push through with the trip this time, just don’t to do it again. But you know, words hurt. And Kap’s words cut really deep ha. Yung magpepeklat talaga. ๐ The damage has been done. Kaya mej cold sa kanya ang 3 bata for a couple of days. Syempre in the spirit of solidarity, ako din! ๐
I understand where Kap is coming from. Ever since, he has imposed restrictions on himself. He tried it one me too pero wa epek kaya hinayaan nalang nya ako hehe. Meron syang “by age” na basehan. It’s not about what you can afford. It’s what he feels one should have at a certain age. Until now would you believe, he has nice watches but he doesn’t want to wear them. Self-imposed. Pag 50 na daw sya mag-rolex that has been sitting in our vault since our engagement. O Babyson, sayo na yan. Suotin mo bago mangalawang. ๐
Even cars, puro second hand lang daw muna. Pag 60 na mag-brand new. Yung kayย Babyson lang ang nailusot ko, pahirapan pa talaga at sangkatutak na diskusyon, hay. Ako naman, Honey, eh kung patay na tayo at 60? Dibaaa? I mean I really don’t undertand these restrictions. If it’s already there, or if you can afford it naman without going broke, why not juts freakin enjoy it? Life is short.
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Anyway.. 4 against 1. Wala naman syang panalo sa amin eh. Compromise nalang. As usual, cheap eats & cheap stays. Public transpo all the way. Ganyan sya eh, I love him, so I have to live with his quirks & all. @_@
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Our 4-day itinerary in case you want to follow it. Ate did a good job looking up places & getting information. Thank you Ateย for mapping it out as always.ย
Day 1
- Chiang Kai-shek Memorial (Zhongzheng)
- Lin Dong Fang beef noodle soup for lunch (Zhongshan)ย
- Nap time to recover
- Shi Lin night market (Shi Lin)
Day 2
- Brunch at Fuhang Soy Milk (Shandao temple station). Try sesame pancake
- Sogo Department Store for Bathing Apes (Jonah)
- Taipei 101 (XinYi) for scenery & luxury items shopping
- Shida night market (near apartment)
Day 3ย
- Instant noodles for breakfast, early head start. (Rented van, 8 hours)
- Ye Jiu Geopark
- Lunch at Jiufen old street (Ruifang)
- Shifen old street for lantern flyingย
- Buy Pineapple Cake pasalubong from Chia Te
- Raohe night market (near bridge), try black pepper pork buns
Day 4ย
- Early morning walk (Ate w/Daddy) to Elephant Mountain (Xinyi)
- Taiwanese Rice Balls for breakfast
- Addiction Aquatic Development for fresh seafood/sushi/sashimi lunch (Zhongshan)
- Donghua for shopping (street wear)
- Ximending night market (Ximending)
- Head to airport
What we missed because Babyson mistakenly booked us home 1 day ahead, lol..ย
- Golden Waterfalls & Yinyang Sea
- Dalongdong Baoan Temple & Confucius Temple
- Tian Yuan Gong Temple
- Lover’s Bridge
- Making gondola ride to Shinan Temple for sunset
And thank you too, Ate, for booking a nice & clean BnB that’s just 2 minutes away from the Metro &ย swak saย price range ni Itay. Haaaay Kap, stress ka talaga sa atay!!
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Up next, our 4 days in detail. ๐
Our heartfelt thanks to Richard & Irene for all the highlights & tips. And of course to my dear readers @mjchien, Jackie Uy, and Anna Jean for taking the time & messaging us about the most interesting places to see in Taiwan. We truly appreciate the love & concern. :-*
Mahaba-habang kwentuhan ito, I hope you’re ready! ๐
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Mommy Jane! I know I should feel empathy for the ordeal they went through with their dad but i just kept (quietly… shhhh… asa office na ko) laughing with your story telling at ikaw din, pinagkanulo mo mga kids “excuse me, hindi ako kasali jan. Wag mo ko idamay.” Hahahaha
But, all is well. Mukhang happy naman si Kap sa Taiwan super cheap no? Sarap kumain at mag shopping. Hehehe
I will be back in Taiwan on April. I will follow your itinerary and include those places you have missed out. The first time i was there was 14 days pero super hectic ang official business kaya shilin night market, taipei 101 at chiang kai shek lang ang napuntahan ko. Sabi ko i’ll come back with the husband kasi super nagustuhan ko ang Taiwan.
Looking forward to your detailed posts. Love, love, love…
January 16, 2017 at 8:27 amHay Candy. Our misadventures talaga evar. But that’s the spice of life diba? Bow-ring kung laging smooth sailing hehe. Omg I’m sooo inggit babalik ka sa Taiwan!! How I wish we can also go back but baka pati ako masabon na ni OTL lolz. Balitaan mo naman ako of your adventures ha? Mwah!! :-*
January 16, 2017 at 8:54 amI am going to Taiwan this April! Your blog entries are heaven sent. Enjoy pa ko sa kwento but not the part when kids are crying. ๐ Naawa naman ako. Pati ako naiyak ๐
January 16, 2017 at 8:29 amhuhuhu oo nga kawawang mga bagets Eula. But in the end si Kap ang ayaw na umuwi coz of the super mega cheap eats wahaha. You will super enjoy your foodventure Eula, hindi ka na magkakasya sa beautiful red gown mo pagbalik. BABALA! ;))
January 16, 2017 at 8:56 amGood Morning!!! I am ready!! I want to go to Taiwan dahil sa IG post nyo kaya inaabangan ko to! ?
January 16, 2017 at 8:59 amSama akooooooo!! <3
January 16, 2017 at 9:22 amI’ve felt the kids sa pagkwekwento mo Mommy Jane. Looking forward to going to Taiwan with my dad. ๐ at may shopping talaga ๐
January 16, 2017 at 9:20 amYou will super love it there mich coz you’re also a foodie!! \m/
January 16, 2017 at 9:23 amnaawa ako ha…naiyak ang mga kids… ๐
January 16, 2017 at 10:09 amoo nga. Bad Kap lol! ๐
January 16, 2017 at 11:42 am1st, I can’t imagine Kap na nagagalit and serious! Iskerd ako.
2nd, I guess YOLO doesn’t apply to him, huh? Pag-60 years old ang brand new car? Baka naman Jaguar kasi ang bibilhin. BTW I also use second hand cars. In fact, I love second-hand-good-buy cars. Actually I don’t like buying brand new cars kasi depreciated agad value paglabas ng nguso sa casa. Another BTW, I am selling my car. Baka he wants to buy?
3rd, hugssss to the kiddos…I feel you all! Ako din I get a little nervous each time I tell hubby that we’re going on a vacation (I usually tell him a day or two before leaving. Yes, I plan everything! Dapat mag-join forces kami ni Jana and Jena).
4th, I can’t believe 5,000 petot only ang airfare ON A PEAK SEASON… I’ve been checking out Taipei for a couple of years now but each December around P15-20k airfare. May I know how early ninyo ni-book ang air tickets?
5th, I can’t wait to read about your Taiwan adventure, for sure kokopyahin ko itinerary ng Goppets. Hopefully araw-araw may post? #pressure #demanding
January 16, 2017 at 1:42 pmhahahahaha!
1) o yes, a seryus kap is a scaree kap! Bilibit or not.
2) baka i-yolo nya mukha ko meding. And yes I want your mini. Lemme butter him up first, weh.
3) You are a jetsetter magtigil ka jan. Wala kang ginawa kundi mag-travel. BI ka sa akin. TBH!! ;))
4) Cebupac but through Bravo Fly would you bilibit? 3rd party pero ok naman nakalipad kami papunta at pabalik. ๐
5) Si Jana din nabubwisit na sa akin. Asan na daw ang Taiwan blog. Sabi ko puro sila reklamo pag nasa harap ako ng laptop tapos ngayon magtatanong asan ang blog? #kalurkey
January 16, 2017 at 5:15 pmI’m excited about your upcoming taiwan posts ms. Jane! We’ll be going there in march. Super biglaang booking, airasia recently promo-ed 50% off taipei tix, all in all around 4k per person! 5.6 if including travel tax. Super sulit!
I’ll be copyinv your itinerary esp. Where to eat on a budget hehe
January 16, 2017 at 9:56 pmomg that is even better than the promo we got huhu. I really wanna go back coz we missed the falls, the temples & kaoshung ba yun sayang. Make sure you include them in your itinerary dear Deanne! :-*
January 17, 2017 at 8:10 amOoohh falls! That sounds fun! Will make sure to research that to include in our it. Thanks ms. Jane ?
January 18, 2017 at 8:50 pmyes and please share with me huhu hinayang ako sa nawalang 1 day namin. Sayang nandun na kami waaaa.
January 19, 2017 at 8:38 amYiii… I cringe thinking about that labada session! Pero ang naisip ko lang ha: knowing that your kids just took it silently and held hands pa.. wow, belib ako Mommy Jane! Mababait at magagalang talaga! They support each other, kahit sa mga times na mabigat sa loob, just like siblings should. Kudos to you and Kap for that. ๐
January 17, 2017 at 6:19 amomg sinabi mo. Lalo nga ako nabwisit kay Kap when I went inside the room and saw magkaka-holding hands talaga sila huhu. Sagwa naman kung biglang “ooops sandali pause walang gagalaw mag-peechur lang ako” in the midst of da sermon HAHAHAHAAH!
January 17, 2017 at 8:12 amOne for all,all for juan for the three musketeers but its kap moment kaya tanggapin na natin baka sumikip dibdib ni kap kung di nakapag sermon but i belive kap must be proud with his three musketeers imagine ang financial effort ng tatlo makapag bonding lang.
January 17, 2017 at 11:18 amKap take time to smell the flowers malay malay mo nalanta na ang flowers di mo na ma a appreciate ang beauty niya at ang purpose niya.
To you mommy jane your a one lucky happy lez miz piggy coz u just dont accept the good the bad but also the in-between
Hehe may point ka Wheng, dapat nga naman may outlet din si kap my kap. ๐ Pasok nalang sa isang tenga at labas sa kabila para err’body happy! Nawa’y forever along bloomingdale at wag malanta sa kabaratan ni Kap, Lolz.
January 17, 2017 at 12:49 pmwas in taiwan last year and yes, i can agree that taiwan was all about cheap eats. felt i gained 5lbs during our 5-day stay -sarap ng beef noodle soup and stinky tofu (nakapag-toothbrush ka na parang may after taste pa rin sya hehehe)
January 17, 2017 at 5:40 pmGrabe ang amooooy. Bakit dito may todu lero hindi naman ganun kabaho, lolz.
January 18, 2017 at 7:58 amms. jane, naiyak din ako sa post mu prang pinagalitan din ako ni kap hehe naiyak kc mga bagets eh,pero enjoy pa rin namn kau sa trip kaya happy n din ako hehe,Godbless po
January 17, 2017 at 6:09 pmYes it all worked out in the end. Sobrang nagustuhan nga ni Kap ang Taiwan nagpaplano na bumalik. At! Ang husto pa nya 1 month ha para intensive mandarin course for the kids – business & pleasure hehe. Sobrang mura kasi everything & napakalinis at safe pa. Beautiful taiwan!
January 18, 2017 at 7:57 amYes Ms Jane, ako din po super nagustuhan ko ang Taiwan been there last June for one week, training and pasyal na rin, ang sarap ng food, mura pa at mababait din ang mga tao.
January 18, 2017 at 1:10 pmagree 100% ๐
January 18, 2017 at 4:44 pmYaaaay! Cant wait for your super detailed posts Ms Jane! Ate Jana did a great job researching all must-eat places! ๐
January 17, 2017 at 11:21 pmYes she did. ๐ It’s so much better travelling no with the kids bigger. Advantage na sila hahaha!
January 18, 2017 at 7:55 amHi Jane!
Very funny! :-)))
I can’t wait for your Taiwan kwento + the Airbnb location!
I was in Taipeh in 2012 with my husband and we stayed in a hotel. Ang masaklap, nagkasakit ako sa Singapore ( 3 days before our Taiwan trip / Part of our Multi-City travel) and got hospitalized! ๐ I was scared and butas ang bulsa sa SG$! No travel insurance, feeling ko kasi bata pa ako! Hehe!! While in Taipeh ( yes, nakalipad pa rin) I was just resting sa hotel like higa, kain, nood TV… repeat. ๐ until our return flight to CA. Story of my Life.
I’m looking forward to see Taiwan again at yun malawakan na sana! ๐
January 19, 2017 at 4:59 amIn God’s perfect time.
Huhu hotel!! How I miss the conveninece of staying in a hotel at may naglilinis everyday. But in fair, ok naman yung bnb namin hehe, malinis & near the metro saka safe area. So ok na rin. And yes, I realy recommend that you go & see Taiwan Bess. Hindi sya byudipul, pero clean, interesting & grabe ang foodtrip kaya you need to get insurance when you go dahil sa empacho, lolz! ;))
January 19, 2017 at 8:37 am